Everyone expresses themselves differently. Introversion and extroversion play a big role in how people communicate. While introverts might shy away from drawing too much attention, extroverts often do their best communicating in crowds. Despite your preference for small or large groups, there’s even more that goes into your communication style.
Have you ever thought about whether or not you have a signature communication style? This very important question can help you get more comfortable when you communicate and help you bring together your unique qualities and attributes that make you a more effective communicator.
A lot of things go hand-in-hand to develop a signature communication style. They are a combination of your personal attributes and your comfort zones. Your natural tendencies can play a big part in how you develop a unique communication style too. Consider these thoughts-
Your wardrobe is a form of communication- What you wear speaks before you do. It’s easy to develop a unique communication style by choosing a wardrobe that expresses yourself fully. If you are bold and love to draw attention, you can easily do this by choosing bright clothing and adding fun accessories like ties or jewelry. If you prefer to tone things down, choosing clothing that is less conspicuous or more mainstream can also create a unique signature look.
The main things to remember are:
- Stick to a style that feels authentic to your personality
- Adapt a version of your style that is professional and casual for different occasions
- Have fun exploring styles until you land on one you love
What you don’t say is actually saying a lot- Non-verbal communication is themajority of the messages traveling between two people. Often times what you don’t say is actually part of your signature communication style. How you hold your stance, how you use your facial expressions, and other unspoken gestures add to your unique style. Make sure that your non-verbal communication is authentic and expresses your unique style.
Some typical ideas could be:
- Be sure that your non-verbal communication is inviting
- Lean in and look people in the eye to encourage engagement
- Use touch when appropriate to garner trust or acceptance
How you make people feel is part of your style- There’s a saying- what you say means less than how you make people feel while in your presence. In this way, how people feel after being around you is part of your signature communication style. People should feel any range of positive emotions after engaging with you. Your communication style can make time together better or worse depending on a few factors. Develop a signature style that builds rapport, is supportive, and positive.
Try these ideas:
- Be curious about others and ask open-ended questions
- Seek to understand by being a great listener
- Be present and avoid distractions when engaging people
Consistency is the key to developing a signature communication style. When people consistently see you expressing yourself through your wardrobe and non-verbal communication, and enjoy their personal experience with you, they will come to see you as having a dynamic communication style unique to you.
